I was able to find a company in New York that sells these connectors.  It doesn't look too hard to do, plus I have an electronics background (in addition to my software skills), so I decide to give it try.

I disassemble my computer, replace the connector, reassemble it and keep my fingers crossed.  It works!!!  Had it not worked, I was prepared to buy a new notebook.  Glad I didn't have to do that.  Total cost including connector, soldering iron and solder, around $30.